In the past month or so I’ve been taking you all through a bit of a reboot here at 60 in 3. We’ve talked about making plans, health toolkits, healthy eating, living active, pushing some weights and getting the heart moving. These are the essentials of a healthy life. However, there is also one more aspect and that’s the foundation we’re going to build this whole thing on.
What Does That Even Mean?
Well, before you become healthy physically, you must also become healthy mentally. Yes, the two go hand in hand. You may in fact find that one is improving at the same time as the other but you have to commit to both. You cannot expect yourself to become healthy through diet and exercise when you’re also placing an incredible amount of strain on yourself through issues related to work, money, family and life in general.
Now I have a whole blog devoted to changing your life so I’ll try to keep this brief, but I would like to emphasize this:
If you want to be healthy, you need to reduce your stress level.
Believe me, I know this lesson first hand. I went through a period of my life that was incredibly stressful. It involved a series of bad personal events and had nothing to do with my health. In fact, I kept exercising through it and tried to watch what I eat. However, no amount of exercise or healthy eating could compensate for the stress I was going through. My blood pressure shot up, my weight fluctuated by more than 20lbs up and down, my energy level went from manic to depressive and my doctor was considering putting me on some medications to deal with various chronic conditions. When I finally came out of that dark time, I found a new strength, both mental and physical.
Now you may not be going through a crisis of the same level, but I bet a lot of you are under a tremendous amount of stress anyway. Like me, you probably have a day job which keeps you busy, friends and family that keep you busier, finances to deal with, projects to complete and dogs to walk. Well, all of this means stress and if you don’t deal with it this stress is going to undo any amount of healthy living you can think of. Stress will cause you to eat too much, drink too much and not exercise. It will cause your blood pressure to rise and your energy to drop. It will slowly wear your down and leave you a broken wreck. Before it gets to that point, try out some of the following pieces of advice:
Sleep - Most of us don’t get enough sleep. 7 to 9 hours a day is recommended and is wonderful for reducing stress.
Meditation - No, it’s not just for new age hippies. Meditation is a wonderful way to center yourself and reduce your stress. There are numerous resources on this great tool online. Why not give them a shot?
Take a walk – Not just good for your body, it’s good for your soul. A quiet walk on a quiet evening is extremely relaxing. Take a friend with you for some quality conversation and you have a good stress reliever.
Read a book – A good fiction book will engage your imagination and remove you from day to day stress. Heck, pick up the latest chapter in the Twilight series if you must.
Hug someone – Yes, I’m a hippie at heart. Hugging has been proven to reduce stress levels and lower blood pressure. How about finding your wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, child, parent or dog and giving them a good hug?
Yoga - Another exercise that’s good for both the body and the soul. Yoga is essentially a series of stretches that will make you more limber and loosen your mind (in a good way).
I know you came here for fitness advice but I’d be remiss in my duties if I didn’t talk at least a little bit about your mental health. I want you to succeed. I want you to live a long and healthy AND HAPPY life. You matter to me, all of you, and for your own sakes I urge you to lay a solid mental foundation for that healthy life you are about to start.
As for me, I’m off to walk my dog. That’s her in the picture at the top of this post. She may no longer be a puppy, but she’s still my little baby and walking her is an incredibly effective way to reduce stress

